Cats have their own special way of saying “I love you.” Their signs can be subtle or surprising and can easily be missed if you don’t know what to look for. At Tails&Wings, we want to help you understand your furry friend better by sharing 10 surprising ways your cat shows affection.
Slow Blinking
When your cat slowly closes their eyes and opens them again while looking at you, it's their way of saying they trust you and feel safe. You can “slow blink” back to show your love too.
Kneading (“Making Biscuits”)
Cats press their paws gently into soft surfaces like your lap or blanket. This comes from kittenhood when they knead their mother to get milk. It’s a comfort and love sign when they do this to you.
Head Butting and Rubbing
Your cat may bump or rub their head and body against you to mark you with their scent. It’s a friendly way to say “you belong to me” and show closeness.
Purring
Purring often means your cat is happy and relaxed around you. This soothing sound is one of the loudest ways they show love and comfort.
Following You Around
If your cat likes to shadow you around the house, they enjoy your company and want to be near you. It’s a sign of trust and affection.
Bringing “Gifts”
Sometimes your cat might bring you toys or even “presents” like a caught prey. It’s their way of sharing and caring for you as part of their family.
Sleeping Close
Cats pick safe spots to rest, and sleeping near or on your lap means they feel secure and love being close to you.
Licking or Grooming You
Cats groom each other to bond. When your cat licks you, it’s a big compliment—they see you as part of their family.
Playing and Pawing Gently
Your cat may paw or play with you lightly to get your attention or share fun moments. It’s their way of being social and affectionate.
Showing Their Belly
When your cat rolls over and shows their belly, it means they trust you completely. The belly is a vulnerable spot, so exposing it is a big love sign.
Understanding these sweet signs helps you connect better with your cat. With love and care from Tails&Wings, every moment with your kitty becomes even more special.
FAQs: How Cats Show Love
Why do cats slow blink at me?
A slow blink is a sign of trust and comfort, meaning your cat feels safe around you.
What does kneading mean?
Kneading is a comforting gesture learned as a kitten. When cats knead you, it shows they feel happy and close to you.
Why does my cat bring me toys?
Your cat is sharing and showing affection by bringing you “gifts” because they consider you part of their family.
Is purring always a sign of love?
Most often yes, purring means your cat is relaxed and happy, especially when they are with you.
What does it mean when my cat shows their belly?
It’s a big sign of trust and love since the belly is a vulnerable place for cats.
Celebrate the special ways your cat shows love, and grow your bond every day with Tails&Wings!
